Comments on: Regrets

By: kellymarie187

kellymarie187 — Fri, 12 Oct 2007 00:29:07 +0000

I was in a similar situation myself, a couple of years ago.
I was an idiot, I actually took the photos myself and emailed them to him, and vice versa. We weren’t seeing each other either, which made it worse.
He did get his come-uppance though – his laptop was stolen, and the only way the thief would have been able to use it would have been to reformat it – and wipe all the information. I was lucky. I know they’re not out there.
I also got sweet revenge by telling my now-fiance that this guy had prepositioned me for a threesome, when I was already dating my fiance. Someone nearly had their head knocked off their shoulders.
I hope you find out what happened to those pictures, for closure and also for your peace of mind.

By: miss diarist

miss diarist — Sun, 09 Sep 2007 12:25:24 +0000

Hmm. The perpetual dilemma of being the ‘other woman’.

It’s something I experienced not so long ago myself and I have to say has made a permanent impression on my psyche. I’d go so far as to say that is has changed my view on such relationships.

Do I condone them? No. Would I ever be the ‘other woman’ again? No way. But the colours have altered slightly. What was once black or white is now a shade of grey.

By: Vincentia

Vincentia — Thu, 21 Jun 2007 12:14:42 +0000

I just have to say that I love the honesty that comes through in your writing…

By: phishez

phishez — Mon, 04 Jun 2007 07:47:42 +0000

I was pregnant, now I ‘m not. And I have nothing to show for it except some impossibly ugly emotional scars.

I find regrets to be a waste of time. But that is one thing that will affect me for years to come. And it will make the birth of my children a very bittersweet occasion indeed. If I do have children.

By: brunette

brunette — Sun, 03 Jun 2007 14:47:44 +0000

Lori, a wild child… I wish I could see it that way. Maybe someday I will. That’s kind of the problem, I was never a wild child. I almost wish I had been so I could simply write it off!

I just feel like this sits just outside of my perfect life. And I do feel like life is perfect, it’s fabulous, I love it… and yet there’s this dark shadow sitting in my mind’s eye.

By: lori

lori — Sun, 03 Jun 2007 13:27:29 +0000

or you could just tell people that you were a wild child and had some fun pics taken so you could share yourself with the world..

not sure, but I think perhaps you should admit to it so that its not a surprise with the ones you are closest too, just in case.